He Just Wasn’t Listening
I have a friend that is married to a very bright guy. His nature is friendly, helpful, and giving. He’s always solving problems — even when the problem is already gone.
I would often visit that friend after work, when we lived in the same city. As coworkers do, at times we’d debrief on problems to make sure they didn’t occur again. Every occasion that we got into an analysis of what happened. The friendly would start offering us possible solutions.
We would explain that he didn’t have all of the information.
We would point out that the problem had already been resolved.
We would continue to say that help wasn’t needed.
He would continue to suggest ideas.
You might think he was feeling left out of the conversation, but rest assured we asked about other point of information.
The young man in question was so busy solving our problems, that he didn’t listen to hear they were already solved.
Great bloggers listen. They understand when folks don’t need advice or their problems solved.
Liz Strauss
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